Pain and Glory, Honey Boy

Pedro Almodóvar's Pain and Glory and Alma Har'el's Honey Boy are, respectively, the tender story of the celebrated Spanish writer / director's relationship with his spicy and withholding mother and actor Shia LaBeouf's traumatically dysfunctional boyhood in the care of his disastrously incapable father. The films are reflective, fanciful and decidely ambivalent about the central character's feelings toward the wounding parent.
In Pain and Glory Antonio Banderas is Almodóvar's alter ego, a stifled filmmaker racked with physical and emotional ailments that he tries to quell with opioids and heroin. Banderas's addled, somnambulate Salvador seems suspended between dream worlds, one lively and magical, the voice of his mother (the always radiant Penelope Cruz) providing the soundtrack for his colorful awakening, and the other, his decorous, doleful and dismissive maturity, resplendent with wall art and loneliness.
In Honey Boy, LaBeouf's alter ego Otis at 12 is played by the fine young actor Noah Jupe (A Quiet Place) and at 22 by the estimable Lucas Hedges. The younger Otis lives with his father (a striking LaBeouf) in a grungy roadside motor inn at night and acts in various forgettable roles on a studio lot during the day. Driven by his father's shame and self-loathing, Otis grows into a defiant, destructive and self-sabotaging young man whose only memories of warmth are of another abused child (FKA Twigs), a teenaged girl living in the motor court with her bottomfeeding parents. Both Hedges and LaBoeuf do the heavy emotional lifting in this unsparing, conflicted but ultimately forgiving letter to LaBeouf's father.
Both Pain and Glory and Honey Boy feature elements of magical realism that enhance their messages of regret and forgiveness despite the damage done by those charged with loving us.